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Frequently Asked Questions

We’re online-only now (no storefront), but we’re still very much here — answering questions, shipping bedding, and quietly judging anyone who doesn’t measure their mattress depth.

If you need help choosing, email/message us anytime. 💌


1) “It’s a shame you’ve closed your storefront — you’re going to lose lots of business (including mine). Why would you do that?”

We hear this a lot — and we get it. We loved the shop too.

But with rent and operating costs climbing, we had two options:

  • Keep the storefront and raise prices significantly, or

  • Close the storefront and keep things more affordable online.

We chose the option that lets us stay in business and keep bringing in lovely bedding — even if it means losing some customers who don’t want to shop online.

If that includes you, we’re genuinely sad to see you go. But we had to choose survival over a shopfront. If you ever change your mind, we’ll still be here online… quietly fluffing the virtual pillows.


2) “But I don’t have a computer — what do I do?”

Since we’ve closed the storefront, the only way to shop with us now is through our online store. That does mean we’re a better fit these days for customers who can shop virtually — even with a little help.

If you don’t have a computer, you can still order using:

  • A smartphone or tablet (yours or a family member’s)

  • A family computer (excellent excuse to bother the kids or grandkids)

  • A trusted friend who can help you place an order

Let’s be honest: after all the years you’ve spent buying bedding, it’s absolutely their turn to return the favour and click a few buttons for you. Bonus points if they make you a cuppa while they’re at it.


3) “I don’t want to shop online, but I’m willing to spend a lot of money — what will you do for me now?”

In the kindest way: we’ll miss you.

Closing the storefront wasn’t about “going modern for the sake of it” — it was about staying afloat. Going fully online is what allows us to keep bringing in beautiful fabrics and bedding at all.

What we can do is:

  • Keep our pricing as fair as possible

  • Provide detailed photos, measurements, and descriptions

  • Answer questions by email/message so you’re not left guessing

If shopping online just isn’t for you, we completely understand. And if you ever change your mind, we’ll still be here — folded neatly on the internet.


4) “Can I pop round to just ‘feel the fabric’?”

Short answer: no, sorry love.

Longer answer: we don’t have a physical shop anymore — just a hard-working warehouse team picking and packing online orders. As much as we’d love to see your lovely (and not-so-lovely) faces, a “quick feel” visit turns into a browse, a chat, and a gentle lecture about why we shouldn’t have closed the shop.

Because of staffing, insurance, and overheads, we can’t accommodate walk-ins or fabric squeeze-tests.

Instead, we:

  • Share as much detail as possible in product descriptions

  • Use clear photos and close-ups

  • Are happy to answer questions and help you choose the right fabric online

Think of us as your favourite shop that’s moved online — you can’t pop in, but we’re still very much here to help. 💌


5) “You forgot to send me a discount for my first purchase. Can you send it now?”

We actually don’t offer a “welcome coupon” — bold, I know.

We’re a wholesale online retailer, which means the prices you see are already significantly lower than standard retail. No fake markups, no pretend 30%-off banner just to make you feel special for typing a code. You’re already getting a good price — that’s the perk.

If we ever run a legitimate promotion, it’ll be clearly displayed on the website.


6) “I’ve changed my mind and need to return this special order / final sale item. It has not been opened.”

That one’s a no, sorry love.

Final sale and custom/special-order items are made or allocated specifically for you — which is why they’re marked non-returnable at checkout and on the product page.

Please only click Confirm once you’ve read the product details and our return policy.


7) “Please update me on the status of my order, even if there is no update.”

If there’s no update… that is the update.

You’ll receive:

  • An order confirmation, and

  • A shipping confirmation with tracking once it’s on the move

If your order is still within the stated timeframe, it’s simply making its way to you quietly — like a responsible adult.

If it’s running past the timeframe shown on the site, message us and we’ll check in. We just don’t send daily “still nothing, but hi” emails. Tempting though.


8) “Can you have the courier text my phone once they’re out front for delivery?”

This depends on the courier and the service level.

Many couriers offer delivery notifications by SMS or app — you can usually enable these through your tracking link.

What we can’t do is personally tell Dave the Driver to “text Emma x” on arrival… as much as we enjoy the vision.


9) “Are colour shades always 100% identical between batches?”

We aim for consistency, especially on core colours.

But with dyed and natural fabrics, small batch-to-batch variations can happen. Nothing wild — just the sort of difference only a very determined aunt would notice under a lamp at 11pm.


10) “Why do pre-orders and special orders say 2–3 weeks? Can you make it faster?”

Those 2–3 weeks aren’t us having a lie-in — that’s typically how long it takes for stock to get from our supplier to us, and then from us to you.

When you see pre-order / backorder / available to order, it generally means:

  • Stock is already on the way, or being allocated

  • Your order is reserved from the incoming batch

  • We ship it the minute it lands

Can we make it faster? Sadly no. We can’t bribe the delivery truck because Auntie Sarah’s birthday is coming up. If we promise miracles, you’ll only end up disappointed — and we don’t like disappointing people.


11) “I found a bug in my bed. Can I bring it in and you tell me if it’s a bed bug?”

No. Please don’t arrive holding a jar of nightmares.

We’re online only — and emotionally not equipped for surprise insect show-and-tell. If you’re worried, take a clear photo and compare it with a trusted source, or contact a pest control professional.

For clarity (because it has been asked): dead or alive, the answer is still no.


12) “What if I can’t make your limited pickup hours?”

Fair point — the hours are limited.

We honestly weren’t going to offer curbside pickup at all, but we added it as a bonus for local customers. The catch is: every pickup pulls staff away from packing and shipping online orders, so we have to keep it tight.

A few important bits:

  • Pickup is during posted pickup hours (e.g., 12–5pm Friday & Saturday) — no drop-ins, sorry

  • Ordering and calling 5 minutes later to “just grab it quickly” means asking us to jump your order ahead of everyone else

  • Our team can’t stop mid-packing to “just pull it now while you wait” — it breaks the workflow for everyone

If the listed hours don’t work, email us — we’ll try to arrange an alternative pickup time where possible.

One firm request: please don’t take it out on staff or make threats over pickup times. We offer pickup as an extra, not a right. Don’t be the one who ruins it for everyone else.


13) “Can I just come in the back and shop the warehouse? I won’t touch anything.”

You’re adorable.

No — the warehouse is staff-only for health & safety, insurance, and the small matter of us actually getting orders packed. If we opened it for “just a quick look,” we’d never ship anything… and someone would absolutely trip over a box and sue us.

You can, however, browse our virtual shelves in your pyjamas. Much safer for everyone.


14) “If I bring my duvet in, will you put the cover on for me?”

Tempting, but no.

We sell lovely bedding — we are not, sadly, a duvet-wrestling service. If we put one on for you, we’d have to put one on for everyone, and that’s how revolutions start.

We recommend the inside-out burrito method, a deep breath, and possibly a small swear word under your breath. Works wonders.


15) “Can you match the colour to this photo on my phone?”

We love a challenge, but no.

Screens lie. Your phone, my laptop, Auntie Carol’s ancient iPad — they all show colour differently. We photograph everything as clearly as possible and include colour names and descriptions, but we can’t guarantee an exact match to a device screen or your living room curtains from 2007.


16) “Can I pay in cash and get a discount if I just come to the door?”

We’re an online shop, not a speakeasy.

All orders need to go through the website so payment, stock, and invoices don’t descend into chaos. We can’t take cash at the door, through the letterbox, or exchanged for baked goods (tragically).

Also: we price fairly from the start — “cash discount” doesn’t really apply here.


17) “Can I pop by just for advice? I won’t buy anything, I promise.”

Right. So you want an in-person consult in a shop that doesn’t exist anymore.

Since we’re online-only, all advice happens by email or message — happily, and for free. Ask away: sizes, colours, warm vs cool, guest-room politics… we’ve got you.

But in-person consultations went the way of our storefront, I’m afraid.


18) “Can you wash the bedding before you send it so I can use it straight away?”

That’s… quite the request.

No — we don’t pre-wash bedding. Everything leaves us new, clean, and in original packaging. We always recommend giving it a wash before first use — your machine, your detergent, your preferred level of fabric-softener chaos.


19) “Can you guarantee this will arrive before Christmas? If not, refund me immediately.”

Nope — we can’t guarantee a specific delivery date (even at Christmas).

We’ll ship promptly and you’ll receive tracking and an estimated delivery window, but once it’s with the courier, it’s out of our hands. Refunds still follow our normal policy — not Santa’s. 🎄


20) “Which courier will you use to ship my order?”

We ship with Canpar, Purolator, UPS, and FedEx. For PO Boxes and some remote locations, we use Canada Post (often the only available option).


21) “Can I request a specific courier?”

Yes — add a note at checkout.

We’ll do our best to honour it, but final courier selection can depend on transit time, service availability, and shipping cost for your address. If your preferred courier costs more, additional shipping charges may apply.


22) “Why did you ship my order with Purolator? I wanted UPS.”

Once an order has shipped, it’s gone — we can’t drag it back mid-journey and resend it with a different courier.

If you strongly prefer UPS (or dislike a specific courier), please tell us in the notes at checkout or email us before you receive your shipping confirmation.

We’re good, but we’re not mind readers — please don’t shout at us for using a courier we didn’t know you didn’t like.


23) “If I can’t open it and see if it fits my bed, how am I supposed to know it fits?”

By measuring first, poking holes in nothing later.

We list sizing info on the product page — mattress depth, duvet sizes, pillow sizes, the lot. If you’re unsure, grab a tape measure and compare your bed to the measurements provided.

If you’re still squinting at the numbers thinking “huh?” you can:

  • Email us your mattress/duvet measurements

  • Tell us what size you usually buy (Double, Queen, etc.)

  • Ask us to help you find the best match on the website

We’re very happy to help — before you break the packaging seal and accidentally commit to a fitted-sheet neck scarf.


24) “If I buy two of anything, will you give me a discount for buying bulk?”

Two isn’t bulk. It’s… two.

So no — we don’t offer discounts just for buying a pair. If we ever run a promo or bulk offer, it’ll be clearly shown on the website for everyone — not hidden in a secret “I bought two pillows, where’s my deal?” club.


25) “You’ve sent the tracking details, but I’ve just noticed I put the wrong address — can you change it?”

If you notice an address error before it ships, email us immediately — we’ll do our best to correct it.

If tracking has already been issued and the parcel is in the courier network, we usually can’t change it from our end. Some couriers allow rerouting, but it depends on the service and destination — and rerouting fees may apply.

Please double-check your shipping address before placing your order. We pack quickly, and once a parcel is moving, it’s like trying to steer a bus by shouting politely at it.

🚗 Curbside Pickup

Prefer to skip shipping and pick up your order instead?

No problemo! Just select ‘Curbside Pickup’ at checkout.


Pickup Location:
232 Donaghy Ave, North Vancouver
Pickup Hours:
Fridays & Saturdays, 12:00 PM – 5:00 PM

Here is what out curbside location looks like (photo below). This is not a retail shop for you to browse (sorry), it’s an office/warehouse with limited stock specifically for curbside orders.

Once your order is ready, we’ll send you an email notification looking something like this:


We’d love to see you every day of the week, but we also need time to pack orders, run our site, and demo our latex mattresses — you get it!

We’re happy to arrange a scheduled pickup if the posted times don’t work—just email us first.

Walk-ins pull our team off the packing line and slow everyone’s orders, so we work by appointment outside posted hours. Thanks for helping us keep things moving!


When you arrive

  • Press the North Shore Linens buzzer (black box, shiny button, left of the door — you can’t miss it).

  • Or ring 604-980-2970 and we’ll trot out for car-side pickup. Fries not included; banter is. 🍟

  • Please show your name and order confirmation (not to be confused with the pickup confirmation).

  • No skill testing math question, promise. (We tried it once. It was a whole thing.)


🚚 Local Delivery – North Vancouver

Live in North Vancouver and prefer home delivery? We offer local drop-offs too!

  • FREE local delivery on orders over $100

  • Orders under $100 may include a $15–$20 delivery fee

  • We deliver on weekends and some weeknights

If you need your order faster, you’re welcome to:

  • Pay for shipping, or

  • Choose Curbside Pickup instead


Before you grab your keys…
“Curbside Pickup” isn’t code for “instant.” Much of our stock is summoned from local suppliers (with grace and patience).

  • Fast track: likely this weekend

  • Slow waltz: custom/out-of-province, 2–4 weeks
    Wait for the Ready for Pickup email — surprise visits make our packers go cross-eyed.


Thank you for supporting our small, independent business!
Every order means the world to us 💛

Dust Mite Talk

Dust Mite

Dust_MiteBecause most of us “average” humans spend a third of our lives in bed, we use pillows to rest our heads on when sleeping (as well as for a variety of other peculiar practices!). Pillows are the place for heads, our dreams and for our “Dust Mites”.

These minute Mites are as fond of your bed as you are, but, unlike a few of us, they prefer to stay in bed for a lifetime, and, unless vigorously attacked, always will.

We, our Dust Mites and us, get on fairly well together in the same bed, but for people with allergies the result is often Asthma, wheezing, night coughs and stuffiness (Most of us have experienced “stuffiness” of some sort or other – in one bed or another).

It is estimated by a well known estimator, who wishes to remain anonymous, that a third of coughs in bed are due to Dust Mites. A further third are due to embarrassment, and a final third of coughs are to avoid laughing out loud!

The pillow can be that area of the bed of highest parasitical involvement, or scientifically speaking , where we and our Mites are too close for comfort. So what can we do to keep Mites hopping out of, and not in to our pillows?

Regularly put pillows out to air “on a dry day”. Always use pillow protectors and wash them regularly in very hot water as cold water kills nothing. One of the reasons Dust Mite allergies are on the rise is due to cold water washing, So wash all your bedding Hot! Hot! Hot!. Pillows get very old and grumpy after three to four years of use. (That’s 1118894 1/2 generations of Mites. The gestation period for pregnant Mites is around 4 1/2 minutes). Did you know, you can stand 126 Dust Mites on the head of a pin, providing the last one stands on one leg. So if you see a Dust Might, step on it.

So buy a good pillow and wash it (Hot!) or dry clean it at least once a year. Also “plump up” your pillows vigorously, it gives the female Mites a headache and any fool knows that interferes with their sex life.

So what pillow to buy? How many of you have bought nearly every pillow on the market and are still not happy? Hands up!

Well did you know the Dust Might does not like wool, makes them scratch causing skin disorders. How to Treat A Dust Mite with Skin Disorders.So if you are having reactions to these little pests you might want to try wool products. The Dust Mite struggles to penetrate Down and Feather shelled pillows as the weave is so tight, especially those Mites with larger “mite baring hips”. Synthetic pillows are so inexpensive replacing them twice a year will help.

If none of this helps then you will need to encase your pillows with a Dust Mite Proof Cover and we just happen to have them. We also cary Dust Mite Mattress Covers and Dust Mite Covers for your duvet/quilt.

And Next the infamouse BED BUG

Wool Pillows, Duvets/Quilts and mattress Pads

Feather Pillow

Down and Feather Pillows

Synthetic Non Allergenic Pillows

Latex Pillows

Dust Mite Covers for Pillows and Mattresses

Bed Bug Prorectors for Pillows and Mattresses

Shipping and Checkout Tips

Welcome to our tips and tricks page. We hope to help you out with any questions or issues you may have while completing your order with us at North Shore Linens.

 


Checkout

Click on “Checkout” on the left side menu of your screen. If you are using a mobile device or a tablet, the website may show this menu at the very bottom, so you have to scroll down to access the checkout and cart options from there.

 

Mobile devices and tablets may show the menu’s at the top and bottom. You may have to scroll to the bottom of the page to access your cart or checkout options.

Here you will be able to fill out the shipping and billing address – please fill out both shipping and billing addresses if different or we won’t be able to ship your order. The website calculates your cart total and your location to determine if you pay for shipping. Once this information is inputted, our website will let you know what your shipping options and prices are.

 

Checkout as a ‘Guest’

If you haven’t signed in or created an account on our website and want to check out as a guest, please be aware that you may not see the calculated shipping cost until the very end. If you checkout as a Guest, we can always pull up your purchase history for you, however you will not be able to. Should you wish to repeat an order or have a query about a past order, an account with North Shore Linens holds all of this information for you to view. Accounts are highly recommended for rentals, Airbnb’s, hotels, restaurants, long term care homes, etc. – those that purchase bulk and want a quick transaction using past purchases.

 

Troubleshooting Curbside Pickup

If you live outside of Vancouver, North Vancouver, or West Vancouver, you may have difficulty selecting Curbside Pickup as a checkout option (it may not show up as an option at all because your address is outside the radius of our warehouse). Just reach out to us at nslinensorders@gmail.com if you plan on swinging by on your way through town and we can ensure your order is a pick up and not shipped.

 

What is the difference between ‘Cart’ and ‘Checkout’ on the left side menu?

The ‘Cart’ option on the left side menu, allows you to view the products you have already added to your cart. You can edit the quantities and remove products here. *You can not edit or remove products from ‘Checkout’. You have to go back to ‘Cart’ to make changes.

You can also change your address and get a shipping quote in your cart before your proceed to the checkout.

You can checkout in ‘Cart’ once you are happy with your order. The following steps apply for checking out through ‘Cart’ as well as ‘Checkout’.


Shipping

Under your subtotal in the ‘Checkout’, scroll down to “Your Order” section for shipping options. For those checking out via ‘Cart’ the section will be called ‘Cart Totals‘.

The prices for shipping will vary depending on your address in Canada/US. It will look something like this:

Shipping to (the address you have inputted for delivery. ex the above quote is for 351 Lynn Ave.).

What does “if less, difference refunded” mean?

When we create a shipping label to put on your order, we use a software that has couriers bid for our shipment. We select the courier based on a few factors, such as price and location.

For example; if you live in Vancouver, we tend to use Purolator, UPS, and Canada Post more than other couriers because their depots are local to you and do not require you to go long distance to pick up, should you not be home at time of delivery. If you live in Ontario, we tend to use Canpar more often as their shipping times are shorter.

If, when we select the courier for your order, the price to ship is less than what you paid, we will refund you any of the freight savings we get.

For example: You paid $30 to ship your order to Quebec. The couriers only charged us $23.54. We will refund you $6.46 in freight savings. The refund will go back on the card you paid your order with. Please allow up to 48 hours for it to show in your account.

If you live close to our warehouse with a postal code starting with V5, V6, V7, we offer free delivery on orders over $100. We will drive your order to your door…

Please please please!!!

If you are not home to receive your Local Delivery in North Vancouver or West Vancouver, please let us know if we can leave it somewhere.

This will save us time from having to come back. You can leave any tips or delivery instructions in the notes section in the checkout. See image below:

 

On the right side of the checkout page there is an option to add “Order Notes“. (Highlighted in above image). This is great if you want to add delivery instructions, like a buzzer number, or leave it at the door rather than at the post office.

If you live slightly outside the radius of our warehouse or your order is under $100, you will have to select ‘Local Delivery‘ and we may charge you a standard shipping fee of $15-$20.


Shipping Zones

The shipping zones across Canada can vary in price from $15 to $35. It may cost $45-$60 to ship to some states in the US.

We work on low margins so we can price our products competitively. Most online stores will say ‘free shipping’ but have increased the product price to account for the shipping cost that they have to pay.

When we pack your order up and process the shipping, if the cost to ship is less than what we charged you, we will refund you and the freight savings we get!

If you live local to us, but your order is under $100, you will have to pay for shipping.


Payment

If you scroll down to the bottom of the checkout there are payment options for you to chose: Paypal, Credit and/or Debit Cards

You do not require a Paypal account to shop with us.

Simple select the option that says you have read and agree to our website terms and conditions:

You can view the website terms and conditions at any point before checkout on left side menu under Shipping/Returns:

Once you agree to the terms and conditions, you can now proceed to payment.  If you select the Debit or Credit Card option. A section will pop up underneath for you to fill out your card details.


At any point while shopping on our website, if you need assistance, (and this page is not helping) please email us at nslinensorders@gmail.com or call us at 604-980-2970. We will continue to update this page and appreciate feedback on your experience so we can improve and make your online shopping with us fun and smooth.

Menopause and Bedding: The New Ewe

“Because waking up in a puddle isn’t just for toddlers anymore.”

We’re all a little reluctant to talk about aging — especially when it starts creeping into the bedroom.

(And no, get your mind out of the gutter. I’m talking about sleeping.)

Nobody enjoys waking up in a pool of sweat, making that 3 a.m. sprint to the loo, or lying wide-eyed in the dark while the sheep parade by for the fifth night in a row.

Menopause doesn’t just change your hormones — it hijacks your sleep, your sheets, your temperature, and your patience.

But here’s the good news: your bedding can actually help. No, seriously. There are simple, cozy swaps you can make to transform your bed from a furnace into a breezy, breathable haven.

Let’s talk about it — with humour, honesty, and maybe a little help from our woolly friends.

Menopause.
The word alone makes people shift in their seats — especially if you’re not part of a family that discusses bodily functions over dinner (ours does, sorry not sorry).

It’s uncomfortable, a bit embarrassing, and often swept under the rug like a rogue tampon wrapper. But menopause is a natural evolution for all women — and if someone tells you it’s a walk in the park? They’re either genetically blessed or lying through their hormone-deprived teeth.

The good news? A few simple bedding upgrades can turn your bed into a breathable, sweat-friendly sanctuary that actually helps soothe hot flashes, night sweats, and those restless nights where you’d sell your soul for a breeze.

So go ahead — put those ovaries to rest, once and for all.
Here are some cheeky (but seriously helpful) bedding suggestions to help you sleep like your pre-menopausal self again:


Mattress Protector: The Unsung Hero of Your Bed

What you sleep on matters just as much—if not more—than what you sleep under.

You could be rocking 100% linen sheets (a.k.a. the Beyoncé of breathable bedding), but if you’re lying on a polyester or vinyl-backed mattress protector? You might as well be napping on a sandwich bag.

That’s right—your hot flashes don’t care how luxurious your sheets are if your mattress pad is trapping all that heat and moisture like a clingy ex.

Tip: Swap out synthetic or waterproof protectors for breathable, natural fibres. Or, if you’re stuck with a heat-trapping one because of a mattress warranty (we see you), layer a natural fibre pad on top to get that air flowing again.

Let It Breathe, Babe

The more airflow under you, the cooler and calmer you’ll be.
A breathable mattress base = better sleep, fewer hot flashes, and less waking up in a full sweat puddle wondering what your life has become.

The problem?
Most modern mattresses come with vinyl or waterproof membranes that must stay on to keep your warranty intact. Makes sense for the manufacturer, but not for your poor overheating body.

Hot Tip:
If you’re stuck with that heat-trapping cover, layer a natural fibre protector or pad on top to get that airflow back. Boom—warranty safe, menopause managed.


💦 Waterproof & Incontinence Pads

Okay, let’s talk about the midnight sprint to the loo—or the dreaded leak before you even make it. If your bladder’s got jokes or your period’s acting like it’s auditioning for a comeback tour, these are for you.

  • Use them to protect a specific area of your bed rather than the whole thing. Less coverage, more comfort.

  • Tuck them under your fitted sheet so your sleep setup stays discreet.

  • Add a breathable pad on top for extra cooling—especially if your partner sleeps hot or cold and you’re trying to keep the peace.

  • Bonus: Great for pet parents. You and Fluffy can both leak a little and still wake up besties. 🐶🐾

Pee together, stay together.

🧺 Cotton: The Laundry-Friendly Classic

Durable. Affordable. Breathable.
Cotton protectors are the OG of mattress protection—simple, effective, and totally wash-friendly (because let’s be real… menopausal nights can be messy).

If you’re the kind of person who doesn’t mind tossing in an extra load (or has to thanks to midnight bladder betrayal), cotton’s your low-maintenance mate.

Hot Tip:
Go easy on the heat! Cotton loves to shrink if you crank the dryer. Air dry or go low ‘n slow to keep things fitting right.

Our faves?

  • Triple-layer 100% cotton – breathable and structured, with a bit more protection between you and your mattress.

  • Organic cotton – because your hormones are wild enough without adding chemicals into the mix.

🐛 Silk: The Cool, Calm & Collected One

Cooling, hypoallergenic, and a total pro at keeping you dry when your hormones are throwing a rager at 3 a.m.

Silk naturally draws moisture away from your skin, helping regulate body temperature and reduce those is it me or is the bed on fire moments. If your hot flashes are more like spontaneous combustion, silk’s here to cool the chaos.

And nope, you don’t need to schlep to the dry cleaner. Ours is machine washable—just treat it gently with a hang dry or low/no heat tumble to keep it in top shape.

Our fave?

  • Silk protector with a 220-thread count cotton shell and natural long-strand silk fill – breathable, elegant, and built to help you stay comfortable all night long.

🐑 Wool: The Unexpected Hero of Hot Flashes

Non-allergenic, moisture-wicking, and master temperature regulator. I know, I know—wool probably reminds you of those itchy socks from childhood or the bulky pea coat you begrudgingly wore in winter. Sounds hot, right? But hear me out.

Sheep aren’t just cozy in snow-capped Nepal; they also thrive in Australia’s blazing outback. Wool adapts, wicks sweat, and keeps you cool in summer, warm in winter, and ready to tackle even the fiercest hot flash.

Here’s the magic: the more wool beneath you, the better the airflow. It’s like a gentle breeze flowing through your bed, helping your body regulate temperature and cool off those night sweats.

If ewe (that’s female sheep, pronounced like “you”) can rock wool through menopause, you’re definitely in good company.

We offer four wool mattress pad styles, tailored for your needs—washable, reversible, more or less wool on top, exposed wool or cotton-covered—each one breathable and built for comfort.

The mattress protector or pad you sleep on will be the most important weapon in your arsenal to help battle night sweats and hot flashes. Depending on the severity of your symptoms, and your sleeping partner, you have the options mentioned above.


🛏️ The Great Mattress Protector Showdown

“What’s under your sheet might just be ruining your sleep.”

Material Pros 🙌 Cons 🙄 Best For 💡
Cotton (100%) – Breathable
– Washable
– Budget-friendly
– Can shrink in high heat
– Absorbs moisture
Light sleepers, regular washing, budget-friendly breathability
Organic Cotton – Chemical-free
– Breathable
– Eco vibe
– Same as above Sensitive skin, clean-living legends
Silk – Hypoallergenic
– Moisture-wicking
– Cooling
– Less lofty
– Needs gentle washing
Intense hot flashes, skin sensitivity queens
Wool – Temperature regulating
– Moisture-wicking
– Natural airflow
– Pricier
– Some not fully washable
Year-round use, hot and cold sleepers
Polyester – Cheap
– Waterproof
– Mattress warranty approved
– Traps heat
-Crinkly/plastic feel
Budget + spill-proof, but not ideal for heat
Waterproof Incontinence Pads – Targeted protection
– Easy to swap out
– Great for period leaks or bladder issues
– Often synthetic
– Not very breathable
Those needing protection but not full coverage
Double Layer Hack – Keep your warranty
– Get airflow
– Genius
– Adds layers
– Can shift around
Anyone stuck with a synthetic base layer

🔄 Cate’s Tip:

Stuck with a heat-trapping waterproof cover? Layer a cotton, silk, or wool protector on top to restore breathability without voiding that precious mattress warranty.

🐑 Wool for the Win:

If a sheep can sleep in it on a mountain or in the desert while experiencing menopause, you can survive a hot flash in it. Promise.


🛏️ Bed Sheets: Breathability Meets Softness

Choosing sheets can feel like a wild jungle—so many options, so little time. But here’s the lowdown for menopausal sleepers: breathability is your BFF. You want sheets that let the air flow freely, keeping you cool when those hot flashes strike.

And if your skin’s gotten a bit more sensitive thanks to hormone changes, softness becomes a must-have. No rough edges or scratchy threads—just gentle, soothing comfort that pampers your skin all night long.

So when you’re shopping, think breathable and kind to your skin. Your body—and your beauty sleep—will thank you.

I’d definitely recommend checking out our other post on thread count because—newsflash!—higher doesn’t always mean better. For menopausal women, sheets in the 200–400 thread count range hit that sweet spot: breathable and durable. Go above 500 TC, and you’re looking at tighter weaves that could trap heat and crank up those symptoms.

Here’s your breathable lineup, from coolest to meh:

  1. 100% Linen

  2. Linen/Cotton blends

  3. 100% Cotton

  4. Bamboo

  5. Jersey

  6. Polyester/Cotton blends

  7. Microfiber

Sure, there are tons of combos out there—Bamboo/Linen, Flannel/Polyester, you name it—but your best bet is always a lower thread count and breathable fabric that lets you catch those zzz’s without overheating.


Duvets & Quilts: Bye-Bye Heat Dome, Hello Sweet Dreams

We won’t pull the wool over your eyes here—really, you can just copy and paste everything we said about mattress pads and protectors when it comes to fabrics and breathability. Same rules, same vibe.

“My duvet has commitment issues—it’s on and off all night.”

Now, down duvets? They’re the lightest and warmest players on the field, all about insulation and coziness. But here’s the catch: insulation during menopause can turn your bed into a heat dome—think of it like a sauna where the thermostat is stuck on “scorching.” That convection-blocking power? It’s exactly what cranks up those pesky hot flashes and night sweats. So if you’re battling the heat dome, down might not be your BFF right now.

Instead, opt for breathable, natural fabrics like wool or silk-filled quilts. Wool regulates temperature like a champ—cooling you when you’re hot and warming you when you’re not. Silk’s moisture-wicking magic keeps humidity in check and feels oh-so-luxe against your skin.

If you want something lighter and easy-care, consider cotton filled —they breathe and keep your nights comfortable without the heat trap.

“Duvet or don’t… depends on the flash forecast.”

Bottom line? Your duvet should be your nighttime chill partner, not your personal furnace.

Ever wonder why La Niña wears the feminine crown for warm weather, and El Niño rocks the masculine vibe for cold? Just some fun weather trivia as you sweat it out under your down duvet—because menopause likes to keep us guessing, too!

Down duvets are the ultimate fluff-fest. They give your bed that “I just rolled out of a luxury hotel” vibe—puffy, plush, and downright dreamy to look at. But here’s the tea: all that loft? It traps heat like a mini sauna. For a menopausal night, that’s basically signing up for a sweaty sleep marathon.

If you’re sticking with down because you love the look, aim for a summer-weight duvet with a low-thread-count shell (200-300 TC is your sweet spot) and a light fill (think 18oz or so). That dense cambric cotton shell is great for keeping down inside but not so great at letting your skin breathe.

The result? Your bed looks absolutely stunning—until the lights go out and the sweat glands turn on full blast. Beauty may be pain, but your sleep doesn’t have to be.

The Faux-Down Fix: Cozy Without the Sneezes

For those picky, tricky sleepers juggling hormone shifts and allergy drama — whether it’s you or your bed buddy — down alternative’s here to check the boxes. It’s a fluffy mix of polyester and microfiber fillings, easier to wash than the real deal but not quite the breathability champ. Some high-quality ones even mimic down’s luxe look and feel. Heads up, hot sleepers: this won’t be your BFF during those fiery night sweats.

Silk: The Luxe Chill Factor

Like we mentioned in the mattress protector section, silk is the ultimate MVP for hot sleepers everywhere. It wicks moisture like a boss, pulling sweat away and cooling you down by keeping humidity in check.

Unlike down, silk doesn’t puff up with loft — it’s sleek, with a bit more weight to it. But trust me, you’ll totally appreciate what it brings to the sleep table. Silk and down are like night and day, so it’s worth diving into both before you make the call.

Cotton: The Cool, No-Fuss Classic

Natural, breathable, and low-maintenance, cotton is hands-down one of the coolest duvet options out there—not “Cool Hand Luke” cool, but temperature cool. If you want something a bit heftier than just a flat sheet, yet light enough to survive a drought (or, you know, menopause’s fiery moments), cotton’s got your back on this journey.

It might not cut it for the chilliest months, so for winter vibes, consider layering up or switching to a warmer option. And hey, don’t forget your partner tucked in beside you—no matter how wild your night sweats get, they might still want something with a little more substance. Selfish? Maybe. But hey, survival mode is real.

Wool: The All-Season MVP (Most Valuable Pillow) of Duvets

Some wool duvets are loftier and heavier than down or silk—but that extra weight brings serious regulating power. Wool’s magic? It works for both hot sleepers and cold sleepers. So, you and your partner can cozy up under the same wool duvet without starting a thermostat turf war.

Here’s the scoop: wool’s weight is measured in “gsm” (grams per square meter). Like down’s ounces, this number tells you if your wool duvet is summer-light, all-season cozy, or winter-warm. Summer wool runs about 250-280gsm, all-season hits 320-350gsm, and winter weighs in at a toasty 400-500gsm depending on the brand.

Remember when we said more wool under you on a mattress pad helps airflow and keeps you cool? Well, with duvets, you don’t need quite as much wool for airflow—because the weight itself helps regulate your temperature. So, if you’re riding the hot flash–chill rollercoaster, an all-season (or summer wool duvet — if you’re apartment-living) will have you feeling fleecy without ever overheating.

So if ewe want a duvet that’s smart, stylish, and sheepishly good for menopause nights, wool’s got your back (and your front).

Now, don’t get your knickers in a twist, climacteric comrades and hot sleepers alike. I’m about to drop a truth bomb that tends to ruffle some blankets—and tempers—in the bedroom. Brace yourselves: two duvets on one bed. Yep, you heard me right. Is it hot in here, or is it just me?

Sleeping the Scandinavian way has skyrocketed in popularity, especially among couples who couldn’t be more thermally incompatible. Why suffer the nightly tug-of-war? Here’s why splitting the duvet is an absolute game-changer:

First up, you get to pick your perfect duvet. Are you a hot sleeper craving a cool, moisture-wicking layer? Or maybe your toes turn into icicles come midnight, and only a winter-grade Hutterite goose down duvet rated for -40° will do. Hey, we all have our needs, no judgment here.

Second, no more midnight blanket battles. Need to kick off or flip your duvet without waking your partner? Easy. Your duvet, your rules. No more tugging, dragging, or passive-aggressive blanket theft.

And just imagine: you can still have those cozy cuddle sessions—under separate duvets! Party at my place. BYOB (Bring Your Own Blanket). Kidding aside, having the duvet talk can seriously up your sleep game and boost both your physical and mental wellbeing in the long run.

As the Modern Dane wisely puts it: “Even though I love my wife very much, I don’t share my toothbrush or underpants with her. Why would I share my duvet?”


Pillow Protectors: Because Your Head Deserves a Chill Pill

Menopausal night sweats turning your pillow into a personal slip ‘n slide? Yeah, we see you. It’s like your head’s throwing its own sweaty rave while you’re just trying to catch some Z’s. Enter: the humble pillow protector—your new best friend in the battle against the midnight sweat flood.

Alright, let’s talk about pillow protectors—the low-key MVPs in your bedtime lineup. If you think they’re just there to stop stains, think again. For hot menopausal sleepers, the right protector can be a game-changer in keeping your head cool and sweat-free when those night sweats crash the party.

Here’s the deal: your pillow is basically a heat magnet, soaking up all that warmth and moisture from your head. Without proper airflow and moisture control, your pillow quickly becomes a sauna pillow—no thanks! A breathable, moisture-wicking protector lets air flow freely and helps whisk away sweat, so you wake up feeling fresh, not like you just ran a marathon in your sleep.

Cotton protectors?

Solid, breathable, and easy to wash, especially if you’re dealing with the occasional midnight mishap. But if you want to dial up the luxury and cooling power, silk pillow protectors are the real MVPs. They naturally wick moisture and keep humidity at bay, all while feeling buttery-soft against sensitive menopausal skin. Plus, you can wash them without worrying about a trip to the dry cleaner—just gentle cycle and air dry, and you’re golden.

Wool pillow protectors

Might sound wild, but hear me out. Wool is a temperature-regulating ninja that keeps you cool when it’s hot and cozy when it’s cold. Bonus: it’s naturally hypoallergenic and moisture-wicking, perfect if your skin is throwing tantrums thanks to hormone changes.

So, if you want your pillow to be your best night-time sidekick instead of a sweat trap, think breathable, moisture-wicking, and easy-to-clean. Your head (and your sleep) will thank you.


Pillows: Your Head’s MVP in the Hot Flash Arena

If your nights feel like a sauna thanks to menopause, your pillow isn’t just a pillow anymore — it’s your frontline comfort warrior. Picking the right one is like choosing a trusty sidekick who’s got your back (or, well, your head) through thick and thin — and hot and cold.

“Flashdance? More like flash pants-off—I’m roasting!”

Latex pillows bring the bounce and breathability. They’re naturally resistant to dust mites and mold — a win for sensitive menopausal skin that’s prone to irritation. Plus, they keep their shape without turning into a pancake by morning. Bonus: they’re a little springy, so you can toss and turn without feeling like you’re sleeping on a slab of concrete.

Natural fiber pillows? Wool give you breathable comfort that lets air flow and sweat evaporate. Perfect if your head feels like it’s hosting a personal weather event every night.

Pro tip: Don’t be shy about swapping your pillow more often than you did pre-menopause. Over time, pillows lose their loft and breathability, and no one wants a flat, sweaty pancake supporting their head during hot flashes.

Your pillow isn’t just an accessory — it’s your nighttime BFF. Treat it right, and it’ll keep you cool, comfy, and dreaming sweetly even when your hormones are throwing a wild party upstairs.


Toppers: Because Your Mattress Deserves a Sidekick (and so do you)

Look, your mattress might be decent, but sometimes it’s just not quite cutting it—especially when menopause crashes the party with night sweats and mood swings that would make a soap opera jealous. That’s where toppers come in: the unsung heroes that take your bed from “meh” to “HECK yes!” faster than you can say “hot flash.”

Featherbeds (2.5” of feather fluff heaven)
Feel like you’re sleeping on a cloud that almost got its pilot’s license. Featherbeds bring that classic bougie softness while letting air sneak through—so you can stay comfy without roasting like a Sunday chicken. Just don’t blame us if you start feeling fancy enough to call yourself royalty.

Polyball Fiber: The MVP for “I want fluff without the drama”
Hypoallergenic? Check. Machine washable? Absolutely. Cooling? Well… not exactly. Let’s be real—polyball fiber might not be the poster child for breathability, but it is a soft, fluffy cloud of comfort. Think of it as your low-maintenance bestie: not perfect in the heat, but always there with a hug and a clean conscience. For cooler sleepers or those just dipping a toe into the topper game, it’s a solid choice.

Dunlop Latex: The cool, firm hug you didn’t know you needed
Latex toppers are like that sassy friend who tells you the truth but has your back. Supportive yet breathable, durable yet bouncy, they keep you cool when menopause tries to turn up the heat. Plus, they naturally repel dust mites and allergens—so you get a cleaner, fresher sleep without sacrificing comfort.


So go ahead, give your mattress that glow-up it’s been begging for, and show menopause who’s boss—all while sinking into the sleep upgrade you totally deserve.

Period, the end.

Thread Count Information

THE STORY ON THREAD COUNT

High thread counts can certainly make for better sheets, but it's the thread that matters most. In fact, a sheet of a better-quality fiber with a lower thread count will feel softer and stand up to washing better than a sheet of a lower-quality fiber with a higher thread count. Besides thread count, here's what you pay for when you're buying sheets.

Fiber

Cotton-polyester blend sheets are wrinkle-resistant, durable (polyester lasts longer than cotton), and relatively inexpensive (up to half the cost of all-cotton). But if you're looking for that cool, soft feel, nothing beats 100 percent cotton. You'll hardly ever wake up clammy on cotton sheets, since the fiber wicks moisture away from your skin. And cotton sheets are less likely to stain than polyester blends; a water-loving fiber, cotton releases dirt easily when wet.

All types of cotton share these wonderful traits, but long-staple (or long-fiber) cotton makes for a noticeably softer sheet, and the surface won't pill and lint like one woven from shorter fibers. The words "Egyptian long-staple," "pima," and "Supima" all denote high-quality long fibers.

Weave

The weave affects the way a sheet feels, the way it looks, its longevity, and its price. Basic plain weaves, which are woven from an equal number of vertical and horizontal yarns, are least expensive and may not rate a mention on the label. Percale is an upscale plain weave with a thread count of 180 or higher and is known for its longevity and crisp feel.

Sateen weaves have more vertical than horizontal yarns. The higher proportion of vertical threads results in an extremely soft fabric, but one that is more apt to pill and tear than a plain weave. Intricate weaves, such as jacquards and damasks feel textured, with a pattern alternating from satiny soft to coarser and nubby. They can be as durable as plain weaves, but they are made on special looms and are considerably more expensive.

Finish

Most sheets are treated with chemicals (including chlorine, formaldehyde, and silicon) to keep them from shrinking, losing their shape, and wrinkling. Some are treated with alkalis to produce a sheen.

A handful of manufacturers offer pure-finish sheets, meaning that no chemicals were used or that all traces of chemicals used during manufacturing have been removed. You'll have a harder time keeping these sheets wrinkle-free, but it may be worth it if you suffer from allergies or chemical sensitivities. Another finish-free option: organic sheets, which are untreated and woven from cotton grown without the use of pesticides.

Dye

Patterns and colors are usually applied to sheets after they're woven, which means the sheets may feel stiff until you've washed them a few times. The softest (and most expensive) colored or patterned sheets, including jacquard weaves, are made of yarn-dyed fabrics, woven from colored yarns.